How do you relieve the pain of anal sex?
I am currently employed as a legal prostitute of Las Vegas, Nevada (and yes, I am a legal prostitute). With the economy as slow as it is, I have increased my prices to make ends meet. Anal sex has always been a service I have provided, however upon the raised prices the customer requests have become more prominent. It was not a regular practice for me previously but I am wondering how to increase my comfort. I have suffered severe pain due to the nightly abuse of my back end. Thank you.
9 Responses
Rabid Fire
23 Feb 2010
Brown Sugar
23 Feb 2010
simple! stop doing it!!
Richy
23 Feb 2010
Stop taking it up the chuff!!!
Kendall Sylvan
23 Feb 2010
* if you just want it not to hurt, there are creams and gels that you can use that contain topical pain relievers (usually benzocaine, or lidocaine). These are marketed for different uses than just anal play too. – check with a local adult couples shop, or look online with Pure Romance/ Passion Parties/ Slumber Parties, and you should be able to find something that will work.
* stretch yourself out with a toy.
* make sure you are using lube when you are doing anything back there.
* try double penetration on yourself with toys. Also, if you are using a vibe on yourself while he is penetrating you anally, the high speed vibrations from a toy can make him finish quicker as it vibrates your body.
The Dude
23 Feb 2010
I’ve read that astroglide is good. I can’t do my gf anal because my penis is too big, whoops.
LasVegas Am-Fil
23 Feb 2010
My wife cant take it anal because she is too tight, but i have gf that does take my 9in in her anus, we use 5W30 as lube
vicseo
23 Feb 2010
Anal sex is quite enjoyable and will take some preprep before engaging in it.
Begin by:
1. Pre-stretching the sphincter muscle by insertion of a medium sized well-lubricated dildo. Do this for at least a week or more prior to anal sex;
2. Self-administering an enema consisting of plain warm water [without any laxative] via a hot water bottle to wash out all fecal matter from within the rectum; stop administering when the expelled water appears clear. Do this about 2-3 hours prior to the act;
3. Asking your bf to shave along the shaft of his organ in order to remove any hair. No hair allows smoother entry of the organ.
4. Using a lot of lubricant [K-Y] on the male organ;
5. Engaging in the doggie position, where you are on your hands and knees and he enter from atop;
6. Using a condom is optional since you are basically very clean inside your rectum and should you engage in oral sex immediately after he climaxes in your anal passageway; use an antiseptic/alcohol wipe on his organ before continuing oral sex.
Good luck!
ozzy_freak200320
23 Feb 2010
either stop or use some ky jelly
skimarcus
23 Feb 2010
1) Take a half a Valium to relax your muscles a bit.
2) Use plenty of Vaseline or a lubed condom.
Although I do not condone prostitution, I do have some advice that you may find useful. When the guy is inserting himself in you, you should be relaxed. If you are tense, then it will hurt a lot. Massaging the anus should help a lot. Also, make sure he uses a lot of lubrication. Make sure that you take a trip to the bathroom before you do it, because if there is anything in there, then it can hurt.
You might also want to try a lubrication specially for anal sex, like "anal ease". Yes anal sex can be painful, but it can also feel really good. If you do it wrong, you could wind up with hemorhoids, rectal bleeding, or even a punctured rectum.
Please also remember that anal sex transmits HIV much more efficiently than vaginal sex, so you might want to use a condom.