Sigh,
so my friends and perfect strangers tell me im the ‘total package’
but, but the two guys Ive been dating over the last 6 months (no not at the same time as all. one if local and one is mid distance away)
are both giving me super red flags, no RED BEACONS that are warning signs that theyre so not into me anymore.
am i overthinking the following facts ?
guy 1- 40 years old
we had an amazing time first 3 months but thne his ex wife started taking up his time because she was jealous of me.
so he and i broke up for a bit.
he just settled with his ex wife on the sale of their house earlier this week.
he has been super busy with work travel, moving, running two businesses.
he had a minor accident last month, then a car accident and then his best friend’s dad died.
he has his son 50% of the time so that makes it hard to see him a lot
so one of our dates was canceled
but now I just found out that this weekend he is flying 2500 miles away to Las Vegas
and this is his fb status update: Settlement on sale of the house was monday.. nightmare finally behind me. leaving for Vegas.
want a lot of r&r… turning my phone off and leaving my MAC laptop back home.
>>>
uh so call me clueless but this means off to have sex in vegas, right ?
i havent seen him in A MONTH and im sad now.
next guy:
lives 2-3 hours away
weve been friends for two years while we dated others
we started to have a great time dating
but things fell apart over the last two dates.
he was very sweet and nice until i started to give him oral.
idk, then he has acted more cool and cocky.
he is 36 and a cute lawyer
we have a lot in common also.
i noticed that since our last date he won’t flirt with me online and usually when i do this: :* xo he will return the same
instead he doesnt or he changes the subject.
when i told him i had a job interview in his city and am working two jobs right now, he said wow youre busy and take care"
(take care ? wth ?)
i also left my shoes at his house 3 weeks ago
now he has lost them (i think he hid them from another girl)
lastly he keeps signing onto match.com a lot. so i unhide my profile there to see if he cared. no reaction.
but he does call me 3-4 times a week.
its very confusing.
advice ?
yeah I just rented the movie he’s just not that into you.
i dont like chick flicks usually (im such a cool hot girl and I LOVE SCI-FI AND action. why am i single ?LOL)
But it was a fun movie.
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